When my cousin Jerry and his (then) fiance Mary asked if I would make their wedding cake, I was kind of in deep shock. I love them and was elated to have the opportunity to be part of their wedding in a special way. Still, the thought that kept whirling around my brain was, “Why on Earth would you let someone who’s never made a wedding cake before, make your wedding cake?”
I tried to manage their expectations without making it sound like I didn’t want the responsibility because I really did. Still, I didn’t want to create a disappointing wedding cake, even now the thought is unbearable. Some how Jerry, Mary, and Lon seemed so confident that it wouldn’t be a problem for me that it gave me the confidence to do it.

















